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Nancy
February 28th, 2006, 06:26 PM
***Warning, this is about ADVANCED heart and other health issues, don’t read if you think it might worry you**



Joe’s been through quite a few things in the past two months. He’s been in and out of the hospital three times, and is probably being discharged tomorrow making this the fourth time. The basic issues are his continued upper GI bleeding which has caused lots and lots of anemia requiring somewhere around 8 transfusions or so (I lost count), which then led to kidney failure, chronic and acute, which led to severe CHF which increased all his internal pressures, making the bleeding worse and thus making a nasty and downward-spiraling vicious circle. Diuresis became a difficult issue due to the kidney failure. So his CHF worsened to an alarming degree, into Class 4 by the time I took him to the ER last Wednesday, and he was coughing up bloody mucous and he could barely walk. He was very, very ill. Several doctors had said that there wasn’t much they could do about the whole thing and it would be a constant balancing act, with a very small therapeutic margin.

He was in a very difficult and fragile situation, since he had thrown some emboli recently, causing splenic infarctions and causing a retina artery occlusion, which left him blind in his left eye. His INR had been raised to try to prevent any more emboli from forming. However this higher level made the GI bleeding worse. So his INR has had to be reduced again to control the bleeding, and will probably stay at the lower level, which is the lower end of the range for a double valver.

During the course of his GI examinations, we were fortunate to have a young gastroenterologist who told us he had an idea. The cause of Joe’s bleeding, apparently, is from areas of gastritis which had been oozing. He also has varices from portal hypertension coming from his congestive liver disease and his PH, but they showed no evidence of bleeding at this time. He’s had three endoscopies, one thought the varices were Grade 2, but the other and final one said they were Grade 1.

This gastroenterologist had trained on a procedure using argon vapor cauterization, which seals off the bleeding areas. Other gastroenterologists had thrown up their hands and told us that Joe would be managed by giving him periodic transfusion, and nothing could be done about the bleeding. But transfusing has also become quite an issue, since Joe is now a difficult blood match due to all the transfusing. The bloodbank has told us he requires a 48 hour notice after typing and crossmatching, and his blood has to be ordered from the regional bloodbank which is in a distant city. So continual transfusing is clearly not a benign situation.

Well, Joe went through the procedure, and it went very well. I would say that approximately one-third of his stomach was treated. In two days, his hematocrit has come up 4 points, and his hemoglobin 1 point. His stools are now a normal color, no more tarry diarrhea and his kidneys appear to be working much better. His CHF is vastly improved, although not completely gone. His BUN and creatinine have lowered dramatically.

As a follow-up, he had a small bowel barium study today, and if all appears OK with that, he will have a capsule endoscopy of the small bowel to rule out any other bleeding issues, that will be done on an outpatient basis. He has also had a large bowel colonoscopy which was OK.

I am hopeful that he will be home tomorrow. He feels the best he’s felt in a very, very long time.

I can go back for several years and remember him having to have transfusions. The thoughts were that the blood loss was from hemolysis from his valves, but I wonder if this has been an issue, possibly in concert with the hemolysis, all along.

Please say a prayer for him that this great procedure will continue to hold for him and give him some peace for a little while. And while you're at it, say a prayer for the young doctor who had a good "idea".

Rain
February 28th, 2006, 06:40 PM
Hopefully he will be home with you soon. As I’ve said before... he's one lucky guy to have you there by his side.

Granbonny
February 28th, 2006, 06:46 PM
You and Joe are in my prayers everynight.... Being the # 2 poster on Valvereplacement.Com..you have brought much help to many.....Like I said in a post last week...I have told my family to seek you out, if I ever have any problems.:) ....Hoping Joe can come home tomorrow..Bonnie

rbl1999
February 28th, 2006, 06:48 PM
Prayers are on the way, Nancy, for both of you... Rose

Sherry
February 28th, 2006, 06:49 PM
Nancy, Joe is definitely in my thoughts and prayers. He's been through so many major ordeals but keeps pulling through. He is one tough guy, I tell ya... Also, I'm so glad you met up with that young aggressive GI. Hopefully this procedure will give him some relief.

ArleneT
February 28th, 2006, 06:59 PM
Nancy,

My heart goes out to you. I'm so thankful that the young doctor was willing to give that procedure a try.

Prayers and hugs to both of you,
Arlene

Georgia
February 28th, 2006, 07:01 PM
Gee, Nancy, how serendipitous, or miraculous, to have the young doc with new thoughts show up in your lives. All my best to Joe and yourself. I think medical advances are staying just about 1/2 step ahead of Joe's medical problems; it'd be nice if the advances would surge ahead.

Mary
February 28th, 2006, 07:13 PM
Nancy,
I'm glad you encountered the new gastroenterologist at such an opportune time. My new cardiologist was the one who caught my pericardial constriction. Sometimes "new and young" is a really good thing.
I sure hope Joe is ready to go home tomorrow. It's great that he feels so much better. I'll say a prayer that the cauterization continues to control the bleeding.
God bless you both,
Mary

Marguerite53
February 28th, 2006, 07:15 PM
Nancy. So much for one soul to go through!! I'm counting on this young fellow to have the much needed magic for Joe. How brave of you two to trust his idea. May you be rewarded for your unending faith.

Best wishes to you both.

Marguerite

Phyllis
February 28th, 2006, 07:17 PM
So thankful that the right young doctor was there at the "right" time and I hope this is the end of hospital visits for Joe for a long time. You both are models for us all on VR.com and we send you our prayers and our thanks.

Glenda
February 28th, 2006, 07:32 PM
Nancy, my goodness. Don't you sometimes wonder how much more can a person handle. Thanks goodness for the young doctor. Hugs & prayers are coming your way both for you & Joe.

tobagotwo
February 28th, 2006, 07:33 PM
Just when you think you're at the end of the rope, someone adds a shoestring. I hope this gives Joe some more lattitude, and more time at home.

After a while, you wonder if all the tests aren't going to be the problem. I fervently hope he gets some time off from them, too.

Very best wishes,

geebee
February 28th, 2006, 07:35 PM
Let's hear it for the youngsters - sometimes age doesn't always have all the answers.
You and Joe and now that doctor are all in my prayers.

Karlynn
February 28th, 2006, 07:39 PM
Nancy, you both have my concerted prayers. Bless that young gastro doc!

Praline
February 28th, 2006, 08:25 PM
Nancy,
How wonderful that you met up with that young doctor! I hope this procedure takes care of the problem for you all.

KathyH
February 28th, 2006, 08:25 PM
Nancy,
I will keep Joe and you in my prayers. I hope he is able to go home tomorrow. Take care,
Kathy H

Harrybaby666
February 28th, 2006, 08:32 PM
and I haven't been on as much, but please know that I am always thinking of you and Joe and praying that you both are doing well...I really admire the way you have both fought Joe's medical battles as well as your own and pray for nothing but the best for you both....Harrybaby:D :D :D :D

aussigal
February 28th, 2006, 09:13 PM
God Bless you two Nancy and Joe...and God Bless that young Doctor with the lil Idea that has given Joe another turn at life on the outside of a hospital...

may you all continue to do well

sylviayasgur
February 28th, 2006, 09:23 PM
hi nancy,
i was so sorry to read that you and joe are back in the hospital.
please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
that young doctor was heaven sent... what a blessing that he came into your lives when he did.
please let us know how you and joe are doing and if/when he gets home.
be well,
sylvia

Debster
February 28th, 2006, 10:01 PM
Hi Nancy! I am so sorry to hear of Joe's issues but I am SO glad he is on the upswing. You both are in my prayers for continued improvements and will also say a thank you prayer for the dr who is on top of things;) Bless you both-Deb

Christina L
February 28th, 2006, 10:03 PM
All the best to you and Joe. He will be in my prayers that this procedure will take care of things, thanks to the young Doogie Howser. :)

I admire your strength, Nancy. Joe is a lucky man to have you, but I'm sure you feel that you are the lucky one.

God bless -

Christina L

gadgetman
February 28th, 2006, 10:20 PM
Nancy,

So sorry to see you and Joe are still having to deal with this. Hopefully they can get things straightened out real soon.

You both are in our prayers.

May God Bless,

Danny

blessed1416
February 28th, 2006, 11:02 PM
Nancy,
Joe is so very blessed to have such a wonderful and caring wife as you.
I'm so sorry to hear that he's had such trouble. Your thread on anger and sadness and everyone who responded to it absolutely made my heart ache.
I have tried to reply to your thread, but just couldn't seem to put my thoughts into words. Please know that you and Joe and the rest of your family are being lifted up in prayer. God bless you all!!! Gail

gijanet
March 1st, 2006, 02:36 AM
***Warning, this is about ADVANCED heart and other health issues, don’t read if you think it might worry you**

Please say a prayer for him that this great procedure will continue to hold for him and give him some peace for a little while. And while you're at it, say a prayer for the young doctor who had a good "idea".

Like I don't worry already? :D You must know that you and Joe are my idols. God bless you all, including the young doc. I pray that y'all have some calm waters in the years ahead. Much love. J.

Maureen
March 1st, 2006, 07:45 AM
Sending prayers and good wishes for Joe and yourself. Whenever I read what Joe is going through (and has gone through in the past) it saddens me to think that any one person should have to go through all that. Joe sure has had more than his fair share of illness. I will pray that he will be able to come home to you tomorrow and that he will soon be feeling better. Take Care.

Maureen

EVELYN
March 1st, 2006, 07:51 AM
Hi Nancy

Of course, you and Joe are BOTH in my prayers.....along with many others here on this list.

I will add that dr. to the list also.

I'm hoping Joe gets home real soon and has many more good days, rather than bad.......

Evelyn

epstns
March 1st, 2006, 08:34 AM
Nancy,

Both you and Joe are always in my daily prayers. Now more than ever.

I, too, agree with you that we also owe a prayer of thanks for the young specialist who "thought outside the box" for you. I remember when my mom was in the hospital with terminal cancer it was the younger doctors who tried their hardest and had the most compassion for a very sick elderly patient.

Yaps
March 1st, 2006, 09:09 AM
Many prayers Nancy, love you both, yaps

tantekay
March 1st, 2006, 11:41 AM
Like everyone else, my thoughts a prayers are with you and wish you and Joe the best of luck. And what a wonderful dr. that looked at things with a different view - sounds like just what you needed and just at the right time. I hope all continues to go well.

KimC
March 1st, 2006, 12:57 PM
Nancy,

Your clear-thinking no doubt influenced this young doctor's creativity. I'm happy to hear about Joe's current state of health, and hope that the previous weeks and months will be a distant memory for a long, long respite. How are YOU?

I have an excellent GI doc, too. He's quick-thinking and thorough. Last year, I wrote a VR.com post about lower-right abdominal pain which I thought related to vascular disease. My primary care doc ordered a CT of the lower abdomen which was normal.

Six months later, the pain worsened and I finally referred myself to a GI doc who ran a simple blood test and found high levels of inflammation. He suspects an ulcer, and is ordering additional tests.

I read in the NYTimes the other day that 20% of diagnoses are incorrect. Interesting, eh?

Love,

imhayley
March 2nd, 2006, 05:06 PM
HI Nancy. I will continue my prayers for you and Joe. I hope he is feeling better and you are holding up okay. You two have sure been through a lot and please know I wish the very best for you both. God Bless and prayers for a speedy recovery.;)

CCRN
March 2nd, 2006, 05:31 PM
Sounds like your prayers were heard before you said them! You are two very couragous people. I pray that God continues to bless you and place gifted people in your path as you go.

Nan
March 2nd, 2006, 08:57 PM
Hi Nancy, you and Joe are shining examples of foks who just don't give up! And you don't let the medical establishment give up. So glad that you and this young GI doc crossed paths.

Hope Joe is now home and that you are both doing better.

Sending you lots of positive thoughts.

PamO
March 3rd, 2006, 11:17 AM
Nancy - I read this thread a day ago and didn't know how to respond. You and Joe have been through so much, it humbles me.

I thank God for the young doctors! I've always had a preference for a doctor that really thinks through the problem and looks for a solution, even if it's out of the box. Without this type of thinking, we'd still be using leeches (OH! Just had a flash of that SNL skit with Steve Martin as the barber/doctor!)

Good luck and keep us posted.

M&M
March 3rd, 2006, 06:31 PM
Thats Fantastic Nancy, I am just so happy for Joe. :-) I'm sure things are finally going to get better. Its just amazing - different doctors - diffferent options. Better days are coming.. :D

M&M

susieq14
March 4th, 2006, 09:36 AM
Dear Nancy,
I'm a little late but I still wanted to send my prayers and best wishes to you and Joe. I hope by now that Joe is home and is feeling better to be "home sweet home". Take care! Godspeed! Sue

cocoalab
March 4th, 2006, 10:18 AM
:) I am so glad that it looks like this young doctor has found something that is helping. May this be the begining of some real good days for Joe. My prayers go out for all of you.

jax3172
March 5th, 2006, 01:09 PM
Nancy,

Your bad news was followed by good news. I hope this is the beginning of much improved health. Keep us "posted" on Joe's progress. You guys are in my prayers.

Jack