In memory of Jackie

[hensylee]

It will be a year tomorrow that my sister, Jackie was murdered. Many of you remember. It is so ironic that her murderer is to be sentenced tomorrow on the last of the charges - her murder. He already has about 140 yrs to serve for the other charges, consecutively. The family will be there and some will speak as family victims. I was subpoenaed but I just can't do it. Remember us tomorrow if you will, please. It will be hard but it will also be some sort of finish and then we can move past this particular part of the crime. Thank you all.

[geebee]

Ann,

You have my prayers tomorrow and always. I cannot even imagine what you are going through but I have 2 sisters who mean the world to me. Experiences such as yours make me remember to take the time to appreciate them (even the negative).

I hope your family has some closure with the sentencing tomorrow. God will be with you.

[Karlynn]

Ann,
You and your family will be remembered in my prayers at this very difficult time.

[Mary]

Ann,
I wish I were close by, so I could give you a hug. I don't know if it would help you, but it would make feel better.
You are in my thoughts and prayers as you cope with tomorrow's events.

[Granbonny]

Me and you..in your Avatar..Who would have thought..in a few months..you would face this great tragedy....We were so happy that day....then it turned into a nightmare for you..I prayed so hard..and you came back into VR.Com....helping others.. that's why you are # 3 poster..always there for newbies..Life goes on...You could have left..but..stayed to post many new posts for newcomers, ect..VR.Com would never be the same without you.. I will say special prayer for you tonight.. Bonnie

[Nancy]

May God Bless your lovely sister and you and all the family. It is a terrible tragedy. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[tobagotwo]

You will be in my thoughts tomorrow, as I know your sister will be in yours.

Kindest regards,

[Sherry]

Ann, you're in my thoughts and prayers, friend.

[fyrfytr]

Hey Ann,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Take Care

[bvdr]

Ann, I do remember that day with sadness knowing what you and your family were going through. Tomorrow will be a tough day for you and I will remember you and your family in prayer during it. Lots of love being sent your way.

[Phyllis]

Lots of prayers coming your way. I hope this is some sort of closure for you. Having lost my oldest sister when she was only 49, I know what a loss this is and I also know that you will remember her every day for the rest of your life. God bless!

[catwoman]

Ann:
You and your family are in my thoughts.

[Glenda]

Ann, yes I remember you telling us about it last year. What a tragedy. It just broke my heart. Hugs and prayers are coming your way.

[EVELYN]

Hi Hens

I will say a prayer for you and your family. Wow, I can't believe it has been a year!!! I remember it well, girl.

Maybe this will help you find a bit of peace and closure to what was an horrendous act. I love you, girlfriend.

Evelyn

[Harrybaby666]

You also have my heart and heartfelt wishes as you go through tomorrow (today now as harrybaby is being bad by staying up too late..LOL) and please know that I am sending you many hugs along with the rest of us to help you through. May God Bless you with the strength and courage to deal with this. Harrybaby :D :D

[gijanet]

I can't believe it has been a year already. I still remember the post from Ross - somewhat mysterious in nature, just asking for prayers for you and your family. And then you filled us in on the devastating news. My heart ached for you then, and it aches for you now. The timing of the sentencing hearing tomorrow is uncanny, but I hope it helps to bring some sort of closure for you and your family............although it will never fill the void. My sister has been dead for almost fourteen years now, and I still miss her terribly. I, along with many others on here, will definitely be thinking of you tomorrow. Please "feel" our love for you when the going gets rough. You will be in our prayers. Many hugs. Janet

[Yaps]

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[Marguerite53]

Ann. I remember your story. I'm so sorry, again, for your loss. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.

Marguerite

[perkicar]

Ann, I will be thinking of and pray for you and your family tomorrow. While nothing can take away the pain of this man's crime, perhaps the sentencing will provide a little piece of closure to this nightmare.
Thanks for your support and caring for all of us who are going through our own trials and tribulations....

[Christina L]

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Christina L.

[Jan]

My Dear Ann,

You and your family are in my thouhts and prayers at this very difficult time,

Love and Hugs

Jan

[hensylee]

Eight of us went early this morning - 9:00 as stated in my subpoena. Seems they were only going to select a jury today (at 1 p.m.) but nobody told us that. So we left til tomorrow. The court tells me that when there is a death penalty involved there must be a jury seated, even tho he confessed several times. The 'trial' starts tomorrow and is scheduled for two days. We didn't know this at all. We thought we'd just go in, there would be a sentence and we'd all go home. I guess they will present all the facts (which I don't even know because I wouldn't let anyone tell me details) and will take testimony. Because it's a trial, maybe that's why they subpoenaed me, but when I protested, they let me out of it. Jackie's sons (2 of them) and one other family member will be called to testify, that we know of, but I don't know why because they weren't there, either. It's all very confusing. Please continue to keep us in mind. When it's done, I will tell you about it. I hope nobody I know ever has to go through something like this. I am afraid it's going to be bad before it's over.

Thank you, all of you.

[geebee]

It does sound much more involved than you thought. I feel badly for you. I will continue to keep you in my prayers.

[Granbonny]

Stay home..Plant fall flowers, ect..You don't need to be there.. to listen to stories, ect.....Let your children tell you..what you want to hear..and nothing else...You will just get too nervous..and upset when his lawyer starts up..Served on many Juries..and they will (His lawyers) try to tell why he did it...trying to get him off....and will just make family more upset...He will get his justice..and I hope Life..behind bars forever....Will still say a prayer for you tonight..Bonnie

[Mary]

Prayers are with you and all your family, Ann.

[hensylee]

It wasn't a trial, after all. It was pre-sentencing where a jury of 12 was seated with 2 alternates. All evidence was presented with a detective, the ME, a psychologist testifying. The murderer testified, against his attorney's advice. He said he didn't know why he did it but he wished he could undo it! The jury was there to make a recommendation to the judge for either death or life without parole. They deliberated today, very thoroughly because they were out for about 4 hrs. Their unanimous recommendation to the judge was death. The judge will formally pronounce sentence Sept 30.

It was worse than any of us knew until they showed the jury the pictures, but we could see, too. We are satisfied with the jury's recommendation if one can be satisfied in this sort of thing.

The hearings began on the date of her murder and ended on the date she was found. Irony.

Thank you again for all your prayers. I felt them.

[Granbonny]

I know it has been a very long week for you...Thank goodness it's over..Justice has been done..and I hope you can go on with your life....and keep Jackie's memories alive. :) I know you are a strong person..Hope this week didn't get you down health-wise.. You have your wonderful children, Grandchildren and greats..to think about.. :) I keep a big picture of Kameron on my refrigerator door...and everytime I open it..I see this wonderful Grandson..who loves me dearly..and I know, that everyday..I will not think bad thoughts.. One look at that face..smiling..gets my day going.. :) along with my Newbies from Russia......We all love you..Bonnie

[Harrybaby666]

In your heart and mind...and I also pray that you will get through the next couple of weeks with ease and grace and know that I am thinking of you during this difficult time. My Heart is with you...Harrybaby :D :D :D

[Mary]

I'm glad this portion is over, Ann. Better days are ahead for you all.
You're in my prayers,
Mary

[maiae]

Dear Ann-- I'm so sorry for your loss, and my heart goes out to you. I have experienced a situation very similar to yours. If you ever need to chat with someone please feel free to PM or Email me.

Warm regards,
Maia

[Ross]

I haven't posted because I've been communicating with you alternatively, but I have been reading!

[terryj]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.