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KimC
March 24th, 2005, 01:20 PM
All,

On what we were hoping would be a happy five-month visit to the OB to find out the gender of my younger sister, Heidi's baby, we instead discovered that the baby boy had died. The "event" took place at home ... my family and I took care of their home and two-year-old son while she was rushed to the ER for immediate surgery.

Heidi's back home and healing. We're all in shock. Everything happened so fast ... Her pregnancy had been a bright spot in our family. Her doctors think she MAY have a heart problem, and are initiating a series of tests. They said the baby was perfect. We don't know how or why she lost him so late in the pregnancy.

Christina L
March 24th, 2005, 01:36 PM
So very sorry to hear of your family's loss. A baby is such a blessing to any family - I remember the days when my sisters were having babies right and left - Mom and Dad were in heaven - we all were. Babies give such hope and joy to parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles. Please accept my condolences.

God bless -

Christina L.

Karlynn
March 24th, 2005, 02:05 PM
Kim,
I'm so sorry to hear of your family's loss. I pray that God will comfort your sister and the rest of your family.

Nancy
March 24th, 2005, 02:50 PM
Dear Kim-

That is so sad. You and your family have my deepest sympathies.

Barry
March 24th, 2005, 03:24 PM
Very sorry to hear this. I have a sister who was stillborn, was very hard on my family.

Harrybaby666
March 24th, 2005, 03:28 PM
Hi Kim,
Just wanted to let you know that I am so very sorry to hear of you and your family's loss. I will be keeping you in my prayers as you heal from this tragedy. Take Care, Harrybaby666 :( :D :(

perkicar
March 24th, 2005, 03:42 PM
I'm so sad to hear about your sister's baby. I hope they find nothing wrong with her heart, other than it's broken right now. Please give her a hug for us and tell her she's in our prayers, and that her little angel is watching over her and her family.

Mary
March 24th, 2005, 03:45 PM
Kim,
Having just recently undergone the stress and anxiety of a sister's pregnancy, my heart goes out to you all. I will pray that you all given the strength to cope with this tragedy and you will heal with the passage of time.

Yaps
March 24th, 2005, 03:54 PM
hearing this :( my utmost condolences...

catwoman
March 24th, 2005, 04:38 PM
Kim:

Please pass along my condolences to all of your family.

Ross
March 24th, 2005, 04:47 PM
:( It happens. It's happened in my family also. Never did find an answer and that made it even more hurtful to the parents.

tobagotwo
March 24th, 2005, 05:57 PM
I'm so sorry to hear of this, as it is a terrible shock and pain for the parents. Your family is in my thoughts.

hensylee
March 24th, 2005, 06:05 PM
Kim - please express my sincere condolences to the little one's mother - and all the rest of you. But she is especially pained just now. It is so hard. I know you are giving her your support.

There was such a birth in our family, too. It was the heart. Baby was otherwise perfect.

geebee
March 24th, 2005, 06:21 PM
Kim,

My deepest condolences to your sister and your entire family.

bvdr
March 24th, 2005, 08:29 PM
Oh, Kim. I am so sorry to hear this. You and your family are in my prayers. May God comfort you as only He can.

Glenda
March 24th, 2005, 08:31 PM
Kim I'm so sorry. Prayers are going up for your sister and her family. Another angel has joined heaven!

Abbanabba
March 24th, 2005, 11:10 PM
Kim - my condolances to Heidi and all her family. My best friend has just been through a simiar ordeal and I know how heartbreaking it can be.

Best wishes,
Anna

Marguerite53
March 25th, 2005, 10:46 AM
Oh, Kim. Such sad news. I'm so sorry. You must all be expriencing a deep ache and saddness. I hope they can get some answers for you. I hope that your sister is okay.

Marguerite

KimC
March 27th, 2005, 12:22 AM
Thank you. I hope y'all have a warm and wonderful Sunday, or Easter!!!

I'm glad this week is over. I can't tell you how difficult the past few days have been. But my family had a long dinner tonight, and we finally laughed and laughed about silly stories from the past. It felt great to relieve all the grief, and we got my sister and brother-in-law to smile. God is good. This has brought us much closer together.

I'll let y'all know what the doctors find out, if anything. The latest is that they think the late-term miscarriage was a problem with Heidi's health, not the baby's. Of course, this bothers me. They had to intubate her in the hospital ... I don't know if that's SOP for what she went through. She has been complaining of a very sore throat. She's healing though.

Thank you again.

Blessings and laughter,

Karlynn
March 27th, 2005, 01:33 AM
Kim,
I'll pray you'll have the words you need in the months to come as your sister and brother-in-law grieve.

Happy Easter to you and your family!

BionicRedneck
March 27th, 2005, 02:29 AM
I am very sorry to hear about the tragedy. Yall are in my prayers. The Good Lord has yalls family cradled in his hands and through him you will be able to heal.

lcwhitney
March 29th, 2005, 10:27 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your family's loss.I know from my own experience thatjust because a child is not born does not mean he is not lovedI am just glad your sister is physically o.k. We will all remember your family in our prayers

Lettitia